An inclusive ceremony honoring spiritual guides, mentors, and unseen kin

Preparation
Create a welcoming space—inside or out—that feels right for you. Gather:

• A candle or gentle flame
• A bowl of water, mead, or any drink of choice
• A simple offering (bread, fruit, herbs, or something meaningful to you)
• Optional adaptions or sensory alternatives—something you can engage with comfortably

Opening the Way
Light your flame, and say in your own voice:

“Flame of memory, flame of connection—
I kindle you for those who’ve walked before me.
Not of blood, but of spirit—
Teachers, guides, friends unseen—
You are welcome here.”

Invocation of the Elders of Spirit

“Ancestors of spirit—those who shaped my path,
Wanderers of wisdom, anchors in shadow,
Chosen family, guiding lights—
Though unseen, you are known in my bones.
Come, and be honored.”

Remembrance and Praise
Speak the names—or the roles—of those guides, mentors, or heroes who’ve inspired you. If names don’t come, speak simply:

“To all who wove the fabric of my spirit,
Whose courage shaped my heart—
This voice is mine in praise.”

The Offering
Pour your libation—water, mead, tea, or another—into the earth or a vessel as feels right for you. Say:

“Taste this gift of gratitude;
May it honor you in your realms,
As your presence nurtures mine here.”

Silent Communion
Be still—sit, stand, breathe. Listen for presence in the wind, the flame’s dance, your heartbeat. Let connection deepen in your own way.

Closing the Rite

“Ancestors of spirit, honored guides—
I thank you for your light, your wisdom, your care.
Travel your old paths, or linger if you will.
Your memory is etched within me.”

Gently extinguish the flame, trusting its warmth lives on in you.

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Inclusive Practice Notes

• Adapt freely—any part of this rite can be altered to suit your body, beliefs, or resources. The essence lies in intention, not form.
• All are welcome—this practice is not limited by identity, belief, or background. Your unique experience enriches the rite.
• Choose your ancestors—spiritual guides, heroes, artistic or cultural icons, elemental intelligences, or those dear to your heart.
• Live the flame—this ceremony is meant to be lived, felt, and made your own. Let your reflection and connection evolve.

Sidebar: Reflection Questions — Honoring Your Spirit Ancestors

Who walks beside you in spirit?
This rite honors not just bloodlines, but all who’ve shaped your journey.
Take a moment to reflect:

• Who has inspired your courage, creativity, or compassion?
• Which guides, mentors, or heroes live in your heart?
• How do you keep their memory or teachings alive in daily life?
• What offerings—words, actions, or creations—could you give in gratitude?

Remember: your ancestors of spirit may be artists, writers, friends, teachers, or even figures from history or myth. Their kinship is measured in connection, not in genealogy.